Written by Simon Baldwin As more and more couples live together before they get married, traditional wedding registries are becoming outdated and the classic rules of gifting are changing; so not only is it high time to update your registry, but it’s also time to get familiar with the new rules of giving. 1. Request specific gifts, but make sure your guests are offered ways to add that personal touch Most brides and grooms no longer want or need to fill their wedding registry with things