If “dream wedding” had a location, it would be Lake Como. For Josef Weber and Marissa Schrader, the iconic Villa Balbianello wasn’t just a venue; it was the setting for an exquisite love story ten years in the making. Planned, designed, and produced by Italian Weddings & Events, a globally renowned luxury planning team and proud Wedded Wonderland Partner, this wedding was a masterclass in intimacy, elegance, and pure Italian romance.
With just 55 guests, bold black-tie fashion, and jaw-dropping details, Josef and Marissa’s big day was proof that when you mix timeless European charm with world-class wedding planning, magic happens. Today as the beautiful couple celebrates their 2nd anniversary, let’s reminisce about their love, luxury, and Lake Como wedding.
Once upon a time, they met on Tinder, fate stepped in later when Marissa and Josef met in person at a Chicago bar they both now lovingly (and jokingly) dislike. Years of friendship, adventures, and deep connection later, the two officially fell head-over-heels in October 2018.
By their September 8, 2023 wedding date, the pair had spent nearly a decade building their love story and their celebration reflected every ounce of that bond.
Marissa, self-proclaimed “knower of all things,” knew the engagement was coming, but Josef still managed to surprise her with a flawlessly planned photoshoot-turned-proposal. Complete with family, their dog Fierce, and the perfect outfit she’d always envisioned, the proposal was followed by an intimate surprise party with their nearest and dearest.
This attention to detail set the tone for their wedding journey, every moment deeply personal, curated, and dripping in style.
This iconic villa is located right on the edge of Lake Como, Villa Balbianello is one of Italy’s most sought-after wedding venues. Its iconic loggia, manicured gardens, and cinematic lake views made it an easy “yes” for Josef and Marissa.
“We couldn’t imagine another place,” Marissa shares. “Every single inch of this villa is breathtaking. It was exactly what we dreamed of: timeless, romantic, and perfectly intimate.”
With a small guest count, the couple had exclusive access to a venue most couples only fantasize about.
The couple’s aesthetic was black-tie romantic, classic, and sexy. The bride requested vibrant colors from her guests’ attire while keeping décor neutral and elegant, allowing the villa’s natural beauty to take center stage.
For the ceremony, Andrea and her team at Italian Weddings & Events collaborated closely with florists to create an understated yet striking design: towering arrangements of long-stem white roses atop acrylic pillars. The reception followed suit with a sophisticated tablescape of white blooms, glowing candles, and crystal accents.
The afterparty, however, was pure drama: rich red roses, gold accents, and a chic custom wedding logo installation transformed the vibe into an Italian-inspired nightclub.
To say Italian Weddings & Events delivered perfection would be an understatement. Andrea, the mastermind behind this seamless celebration, is known for her insane talent, unparalleled connections, and ability to transform any vision into an effortless reality.
“She single-handedly made our dream day possible,” says Marissa. “From vendor selection to every small detail, Andrea put our happiness and vision first. We’re forever grateful.”
With Andrea’s team, no stone was left unturned, every logistical detail, design decision, and guest experience was handled with white-glove precision, giving the couple the rare gift of simply being present.
Marissa stunned in a custom-slit Berta gown she found at the flagship SoHo store, a perfect match for the fairytale Italian villa backdrop. She accessorized with heirloom-inspired custom jewelry from her own 14K jewelry line, Fierce Jewelry Co., adding sentimental touches like diamonds from her late father-in-law’s ring.
Josef embraced timeless elegance in Suitsupply, completing his look with his late grandfather’s vintage Rolex and diamond cufflinks, a nod to family legacy woven throughout the day.
For the afterparty, Marissa switched into a chic Fleur du Mal mini dress and Nike Dunks, proving even luxury brides know how to kick off their heels to dance the night away.
Entertainment was a highlight of the evening thanks to QART, a powerhouse female string quartet that elevated every moment. From live strings during the ceremony to electric performances with a DJ at the afterparty, their multiple costume changes and dynamic performances created a show-stopping experience guests will never forget.
Josef and Marissa’s Lake Como wedding was more than a celebration; it was a love letter to their relationship and proof that luxury weddings can feel deeply personal.
Andrea and Italian Weddings & Events created an unforgettable weekend that balanced high-end design, flawless execution, and heartfelt touches. For couples dreaming of a destination wedding that’s equal parts glamorous and meaningful, this is your blueprint.
Because when you work with the right planner, a dream wedding isn’t just a fantasy, it’s your reality.
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