From naming her ring bearer to joking about Taylor Swift’s role, Selena Gomez gave fans an update on her wedding with Benny Blanco that has everyone talking.
Selena Gomez sat down with Jimmy Fallon on September 9, 2025, alongside her Only Murders in the Building co-stars Martin Short and Steve Martin. While talking wedding planning with fiancé Benny Blanco, Gomez shared that she’s feeling “wonderful,” “very lucky,” and “so excited.”
Then came the fun detail: Martin Short, yes, the Martin Short, will be their ring bearer. When asked if Short and Steve Martin are invited, Selena replied, “Course they are; Marty’s the ring bearer.”
Short even dramatized the moment on air, getting on one knee and mimicking the presentation of the ring with theatrical flair.
Who’s in the Wedding Party (Or Wants to Be)
Naturally, Selena’s announcement stirred up a lot of buzz, not just among fans but also among her famous friends.
Taylor Swift was quick to jump in, commenting under Selena’s engagement post with the playful line, “Yes I will be the flower girl.”
With that, Swift claimed her spot in the ceremony with her usual charm. Ed Sheeran is also confirmed to be on the guest list, continuing the long-standing friendship he shares with Selena.
The excitement doesn’t stop there. David Henrie, Selena’s former co-star from Wizards of Waverly Place, is expected to be part of the celebration as well, bringing a nostalgic nod to her Disney Channel beginnings.
And in a delightful crossover moment, Paris Hilton is also on the list, something her sister Nicky revealed during the 2025 MTV VMAs. Each name adds to a guest lineup that blends music, television, and pop culture in a way that only Selena Gomez could pull off.
Wedding Timeline & Vibe: What’s Next?
While the full wedding date has not been publicly confirmed, sources indicate that the celebration is likely to happen at the end of September 2025 in Montecito, California.
Planning appears to be in motion: the couple recently held their bachelor/bachelorette parties (Selena was in Cabo), and Gomez says every piece, from guest list to ceremony feel, is being considered with care. Not surprisingly, the aesthetic is expected to blend warmth, celebrity touches, and personal meaning rather than a big spectacle.
What This All Means for Us
What feels special here isn’t just the ring bearer or the guest list, it’s how personalized and playful these details are.

Selena is just staging the perfect wedding by including friends in ways that tell a story of long friendships, humor, and joy. For fans who watch every award show outfit and every Instagram story, this feels like a moment that’s relatable, yes, because it’s a celebrity wedding but also because her excitement, choices, and stories feel very human.
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