Tips For The Modern Bride – Keeping A Balanced Approach to Weight and Staying in Shape Your Wedding is such a special time –planning, preparing, spending quality moments with the people you love. I remember my own wedding, where I can honestly say that I remained a very calm and present bride-to-be. I didn’t allow the little details to stress me, I surrendered to it and had full trust that the day would be all I ever wished for. However, I ’d be lying if I said I didn’t put pressure on my