Your wedding morning isn’t just the start of a busy wedding day—it’s the emotional prelude to a love story years in the making. It sets the tone not only in your wedding photos but in your heart. Done right, it feels calm, grounded, and filled with light. Done poorly, the lack of thought and planning can cause chaos and unnecessary stress.
Let’s curate a morning that soothes your senses, honors your heart, gives you hope, and helps you stay fully present for everything that follows. After all, it’s going to be a long day ahead.
When planning your wedding getting ready timeline, be sure to reflect on what you know about yourself. How you handle stress, what you seek when dealing with stress or nerves, and what calms you down when experiencing nerves or stress.
This reflection is key to ensuring your getting ready morning does what you need it to!
Whether you’re waking up in a boutique villa on the Amalfi Coast or your childhood home on your wedding day, the right space matters.
Declutter your surroundings. Clean surfaces and open windows help clear your mind, zone out, and fully immerse yourself before this big day. Add sensory anchors: a fun playlist, soft textures, and a calming scent. We suggest white tea, neroli, or French lavender to set the mood. If this is a destination wedding, ask the hotel or venue you will be getting ready in to do this for you!
Whether you choose to surround yourself with only your closest loved ones, just your bridal party or the whole family— whoever is with you in this moment should be the ultimate support system (aside from your partner!), not a source of stress.
To ensure the morning is stress free, ask your wedding planner to handle early calls from vendors and family members, so you can stay present and protect your peace. Let the key people answer questions for you, when necessary.
Trust us: not everything will go according to plan. Hair and makeup, and getting ready may take longer. A zipper may stick. A dress might not arrive in the morning. A photographer forgets his batteries at the very last minute. Someone always forgets their earrings. And so on!
Add extra time between moments. Overestimate how long things take, and allow yourself to move gently through the wedding timeline. A few examples to suggest starting:
Especially for cultural and destination weddings, as there may be certain cultural practcies you wish to include in your wedding day!
Use this timeline as a general guide, not the rule. There are no rules – it’s your big day, so you get to decide. Do what’s important to you!
Plan your day with care so you can float through it and have fun during the reception!
Between excitement and nerves, it’s easy to forget to eat. But, brides, food is your fuel, especially for this special day.
Start with a healthy breakfast: smoothies, yogurt bowls, or mini frittatas work wonders. Add lemon balm tea or even a slow cup of coffee if that’s your ritual. And yes, stay hydrated—you’ll thank yourself later.
Before the glam begins, you may choose to spend time with yourself. Meditate. Breathe. Walk barefoot on the grass. This grounding moment will help calm nerves and prevent feeling anxious later.
Or maybe what you need is to be surrounded by your family members. Maybe what calms you down the most is to share the experience with your mother and have your own Mama Mia getting ready moment.
Know yourself, make a choice that you know suits your personal needs and that will help you feel the way you want to feel on your wedding day.
Your hair and makeup routine is more than just aesthetic—it’s energy.
Ask your makeup artist and hair stylist to create an environment that’s peaceful, intentional, and aligned with your vision. Play music that reflects your mood—perhaps something chic, romantic, or joyfully bold. Take photos and lots of selfies! Call your friends over if you feel like it. When it comes to getting ready, create that space to allow yourself to just be you. There are no rules–this is your life as a bride.
Additionally, confirm your look and timing well before the big day, especially if you’re planning a first look or photos at the ceremony venue. Let glam feel like a celebration of lasting memories, not a production.
The best memories aren’t always on a checklist.
Make time for what makes your heart sing: a note from your partner, tea with your mum, a meal with your family members, a group hug with your bridesmaids. Or simply five quiet minutes to breathe. These should all be part of your wedding day plans.
Let your photographer and videographer know your wedding morning should feel intimate, not performative.
Request thoughtful photos and shots of:
These are the photos that live on in your heart. Capture these moments of celebration among your closest friends and family members.
Feel the texture. Hear the music. Look at the friends, the family, the light falling across the room. This is the soft beginning of a beautiful life chapter.
This isn’t just getting ready. It’s the ceremony before the ceremony where you can leave all your worries behind. Whether this involves an actual ritual or not, be sure to focus on how you feel and what you need to ensure your wedding morning sets you up for an amazing wedding day.
There’s no single script for the perfect wedding morning, but there is one truth: the energy you begin with sets the tone for your whole day.
So take deep breaths. Add beauty. Build ease. Invite joy. Let go, leave your worries, and let your love lead. No more last-minute hiccups or hair and makeup mishaps. No other moment than this to create space and make way for this time.
Because long after your first dance, when the flowers have faded and the night is over, you’ll remember this: The stillness. The glow. The grace. The love. And that’s the part that lasts.
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