The Proposal

Love knows no boundaries, and this sentiment truly came to life in the heartwarming union of Dara and Russell. In a whirlwind of surprise and romance, their journey began when Russell proposed to Dara on the eve of her 30th birthday. Nestled in the enchanting mountains of Malaney, Queensland, the couple embarked on a memorable getaway to a five-star lodge, where roses and candles adorned their room, setting the stage for a love story destined to unfold.

How Dara & Russell Met

Born to South African parents but having spent her formative years in Australia, Dara had always cherished a deep connection with her Nigerian heritage. It was at university in Australia that she crossed paths with her soulmate, her now beloved husband Russell. As their love blossomed, it became evident that their wedding would be a testament to their shared cultural backgrounds, as well as a chance to introduce their family and friends to the vibrant tapestry of their lives.

All The Details About Their Wedding in South Africa

After much consideration, Dara and Russell decided to exchange their vows in the captivating land of South Africa, a country brimming with scenic beauty and rich cultural diversity. This choice was particularly significant as it afforded the couple’s loved ones, scattered across the globe in places like America, Sweden, Ghana, and of course, Australia, an extraordinary opportunity to experience South Africa’s wonders and immerse themselves in Dara’s roots.

The Traditional Wedding Events

Their remarkable wedding journey comprised five distinct events, each one carefully curated to honor their heritage and create lasting memories. It all began with a small, intimate legal ceremony in Australia, witnessed by their closest loved ones. This initial step was followed by a Catholic wedding in South Africa, graced by a gathering of twenty cherished guests, including Dara’s childhood priest, who had played an influential role in her spiritual upbringing.

The festivities continued with a magnificent traditional Nigerian engagement ceremony, where 150 loved ones came together to celebrate the couple’s union. The vibrant colors, enchanting melodies, and cherished traditions were seamlessly interwoven into this joyous occasion, uniting two families and cultures in a beautiful harmony of love and acceptance. 

This was soon followed by a grand traditional wedding, where 200 attendees witnessed the couple’s deep commitment and shared their delight as Dara and Russell embarked on their marital journey. But the celebrations didn’t end there. The couple saved the grandest event for last, a thanksgiving ceremony held in Nigeria, where 200 friends and family members gathered to express their gratitude and celebrate the love and union of Dara and Russell. With the invaluable assistance of her amazing sister and a talented wedding planner, Dara effortlessly navigated the intricate details, ensuring that every moment was infused with joy, cultural significance, and love.

The Brides Most Memorable Moments

Reflecting on the whirlwind of festivities, Dara fondly recalls the most memorable moments of her wedding journey. One standout memory was witnessing her mother-in-law and her family embracing the Nigerian outfits, their eyes sparkling with excitement as they immersed themselves in the vibrant traditions. Furthermore, Dara delighted in seeing the Australian groomsmen wholeheartedly embrace the customs, donning brightly colored outfits and dancing with exuberance as they entered the ceremony. It was a beautiful testament to the openness and acceptance that permeated the entire celebration.

Adding an unexpected twist to the festivities, a marching band, blending traditional and modern music, added an incredible burst of energy and excitement to the wedding. Their captivating melodies resonated throughout the venue, creating an atmosphere of joy and celebration that left guests enchanted. The fusion of cultures was a sight to behold, a symbol of the love that had brought everyone together on this momentous occasion.

Advice for Future Brides

In the midst of planning such an extraordinary celebration, Dara shares invaluable advice for future couples embarking on their wedding journey. “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” she encourages, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what truly matters: love, togetherness, and cherished memories. Surrounding oneself with individuals who wholeheartedly support and share in the excitement is crucial. Delegation is key, allowing each person to understand their role and contribute to the seamless execution of the celebration.

The Wedding Vendors

23 February:

Venue: Bryanston country club

Planning and Coordination – Beloved studio planning @belovedstudio_planning

Dj – Travis Carelse

Sound and lighting – Sound Hatch productions @shp_sa

Make up and hair – Mudi Munira and Khanyisile Nyathi

Catering: Jummy’s kitchen Authentic African Cuisine @jummys_kitchen

Cake: Ms Modupe – AbiCake

Décor: All things weddings @allthingsweddingsa

Plants: Botanical Heaven @botanicalheaven_

Stationery: Signify Collections @signify_collections_

Alaga: Mrs Olamide

Videography: J|R Films – Jesse Rajh Films @jesserajhfilms

Photography : Chrisel Mouton Photography @chrisel_mouton_weddings

Traditional outfit (bride) : @jazzeffectdesign

24 February

Venue: Avianto Estate

Planning and coordination: Beloved Studio planning @belovedstudio_planning

Videography: J|R Films – Jesse Rajh Films @jesserajhfilms

Photography : Chrisel Mouton Photography @chrisel_mouton_weddings

Dj – Travis Carelse

Sound and lighting – Sound Hatch productions @shp_sa

Entertainment: Jagermeister Brass Cartel @jagermeisterbrasscartel

MC: Linde Sibanda – Zuberry Entertainment – @zuberry_ent

Make up and hair: Bella Makeup Artistry and Khanyisile Nyathi – @bella_makeupartistry

Bridal gown: Gold Couture @goldcouture_au

Bridesmaids dresses: Melani the Label @melanithelabel

Grooms suit: Institchu – @institchu

Guest favours : Jummy’s kitchen – @jummys_kitchen

Authentic African Cuisine

Cake; Ms Modupe Abi Cake

Flowers and décor: Love beloved studios @lovebelovedstudio

Roof installation chandeliers : Event inspirations @ei_eventinspirations

Stationery: Signify collections – @signify_collections_

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