A psychologist reveals 101 hacks to help your deal with Wedding planning stress
Organising a Wedding is stressful, you’ll be dealing with suppliers, budgets and in-laws all while you’re working full-time, hitting the gym and cutting out carbs. So, when we read this Californian psychology teacher’s Brett Phillips 101 hacks for reducing stress, we knew we had to share with you.
Wake up 15 minutes earlier
Prepare for the morning the night before
Avoid tight fitting clothes
Avoid relying on chemical aids
Set appointments ahead
Don’t rely on your memory… write it down
Practice preventative maintenance
Make duplicate keys
Say ‘no’ more often
Set priorities in your life
Avoid negative people
Use time wisely
Simplify meal times
Always make copies of important papers
Anticipate your needs
Repair anything that doesn’t work properly
Ask for help with the jobs you dislike
Break large tasks into bite-size portions
Look at problems as challenges
Look at challenges differently
Unclutter your life
Smile
Be prepared for rain
Tickle a baby
Pet a friendly cat or dog
Don’t know all the answers
Look for a silver lining
Say something nice to someone
Teach a kid to fly a kite
Walk in the rain
Schedule play time into every day
Take a bubble bath
Be aware of the decisions you make
Believe in yourself
Stop saying negative things to yourself
Visualise yourself winning
Develop your sense of humour
Stop thinking tomorrow will be a better today
Have goals for yourself
Dance a jig
Say ‘hello’ to a stranger
Ask a friend for a hug
Look up at the stars
Practice breathing slowly
Learn to whistle a tune
Read a poem
Listen to a symphony
Watch a ballet
Read a story while curled up in bed
Do a brand new thing
Stop a bad habit
Buy yourself a flower
Take time to smell the flowers
Find support from others
Ask someone to be your vent partner
Do it today
Work at being cheerful and optimistic
Put safety first
Do everything in moderation
Pay attention to your appearance
Strive for excellence, not perfection
Stretch your limits a little each day
Look at a work of art
Hum a jingle
Maintain your weight
Plant a tree
Feed the birds
Practice grace under pressure
Stand up and stretch
Always have a ‘plan b’
Learn a new doodle
Memorise a joke
Be responsible for your feelings
Learn to meet your own needs
Become a better listener
Know your limitations and let others know them too
Tell someone to have a good day in pig Latin
Throw a paper plane
Exercise every day
Learn the words to a new song
Get to work early
Clean out one closet
Play patty cake with a toddler
Go on a picnic
Take a different route to work
Leave work early
Put air freshener in your car
Watch a movie and eat popcorn
Write a note to a faraway friend
Go to a ball game and scream
Cook a meal and eat it by candlelight
Recognise the importance of unconditional love
Remember that stress is an attitude
Keep a journal
Practice a monster smile
Remember you always have options
Have a support network of people, places and things
