Rebecca and Ruben’s destination wedding wasn’t just a ceremony, it was a multi-day love odyssey set against one of the world’s most iconic natural wonders: the Pitons of St. Lucia. If you’ve ever dreamed of saying “I do” in a place so beautiful it feels surreal, this wedding might just seal the deal.
But first, let’s rewind. These two first crossed paths in Washington D.C. back in 2014 when Rebecca started a new job at a PR agency and Ruben was literally the guy assigned to train her. “The spark was immediate,” says Rebecca, “but we stayed ‘just colleagues’ for years.”
Fast forward to a very cinematic holiday party in NYC in 2018. Picture this: Ruben, standing on a couch in a bar, finally confesses his longtime crush and just like that, the story takes off. A move to Miami, a shared life in West Palm Beach, and a Jackson Hole proposal later (on her 30th birthday, no less), they were ready to tie the knot. And where better to do that than the lush, heart-stopping coastline of St. Lucia.
A “Multi-Destination” Wedding Weekend on One Island? Yes Please.
“We didn’t want one event. We wanted a journey,” says Rebecca. And what a journey it was.
From beach bonfires and speedboats to catamaran sails and cliffside vows, the couple carefully choreographed a multi-day experience across St. Lucia that felt like a rolling love story, each event in a different location, each one revealing a new layer of the island (and their relationship).
- The welcome party at The Naked Fisherman: Barefoot dancing, waves crashing, and the bride and groom partying with restaurant staff.
- The rehearsal dinner at Sugar Beach: A private speedboat arrival, shawarma buffet, live music, and a moon halo so breathtaking, the whole group fell silent.
- And finally, the wedding day at La Belle Hélène, a private estate perched above the sea with the Pitons standing tall behind it. Guests arrived via catamaran, and the night ended dancing under the stars.
“It wasn’t about doing the most,” says Rebecca. “It was about creating something that felt soulful, sacred, and a little wild.”
The Venue: La Belle Hélène
If ever a location had main character energy, it’s this villa. “We weren’t looking for a ballroom or typical resort. We wanted somewhere intimate, transportive, and a little unexpected,” says Rebecca. And they found it, in spades.
With architecture that whispered romance and views that could melt even the most stoic of hearts, La Belle Hélène offered the perfect canvas for their vision: an open-air ceremony beneath a handcrafted chuppah, sunset dinner overlooking the sea, and dancing that felt like freedom.
“It held a spiritual charge,” Rebecca reflects. “It felt like the right place to begin the next chapter.”
Moments That Gave Us Chills (and Maybe a Few Tears)
Let’s talk about magic. Not just the aesthetic kind, we’re talking rainbow-on-your-wedding-morning kind.
- A rainbow the morning of the wedding had guests texting: “It’s a sign.”
- A private swim before the ceremony gave the couple a grounding, tear-filled pause.
- A moon halo during the rehearsal dinner left guests speechless.
- A catamaran ride post-reception with music blaring and rum punch flowing, the kind of joy you bottle for life.
“There were signs everywhere,” says Rebecca. “It felt like our parents were saying, we’re here.”
The Details: Deeply Personal, Wildly Beautiful
This wedding wasn’t just a Pinterest board. It was layered, intentional, and brimming with meaning.
- Rebecca’s Romanian hand-beaded veil honored her heritage.
- Tiny blue ceramic cat shakers nodded to Ruben’s late mother, who adored collecting them.
- Multilingual menus reflected their cultural mosaic: German, Romanian, Hebrew, English.
- Handwritten letters for each guest? Yes. Every single one. “We wanted them to feel part of the story, not just watching it unfold.”
From a lace welcome sign designed with an artist to hand-painted menus inspired by their favorite London restaurant, every element whispered, this is us.
By working closely with local vendors, artists, chefs, and creatives, the couple created a destination wedding that was luxurious and deeply human. “Luxury doesn’t have to mean over-the-top, it can mean thoughtful, immersive, and generous,” Rebecca explains.
Their Best Advice? Forget the Rules. Find the Soul.
“Think about how you want it to feel before how it should look,” says Rebecca. “Start with emotional anchors: a memory, a value, a piece of your story and build from there.”
In a world of carbon-copy weddings, this one stood apart. It was spiritual. It was intimate. It was unforgettable.
Ready to plan your own soul-stirring destination wedding? Let Wedded Wonderland help you bring your dream to life, whether it’s a Piton paradise or something entirely your own, join our complimentary Wedded Concierge service or check out Wedded Partners Global Listing and let’s get Wedded!
Credits
- Photographer @louisfort.co
- Wedding Planner @kelcileighevents
- Wedding Coordinator @thouzand.wordz
- Cake and Dessert @sweetdreamscustomcakes
- DJ @dj_romanus
- Hair @cheveuxlamode
- Dress by @kimkassascouture @bridalreflectionsny
