You keep getting seenzoned by the wedding vendors and venues, now you’re spiraling: Are they ghosting me? Is my wedding cursed? Do vendors secretly hate me? You’ve sent five enquiries. Only one vendor replied. Now you’re sitting there wondering: Is it me? The truth is, it might not be you as a person, but it could be how you’re enquiring. Wedding vendors aren’t ghosting you out of spite. They’re just trying to manage full inboxes, jam-packed calendars, and the realities of running a business