It’s a dilemma that almost every modern-day bride has to face. Should there be men at the bridal shower? And when we ask the question, we don’t necessarily mean your groom or your father, because OBVIOUSLY these lovely gents would put a damper on the girl talk. We mean male mates and gay BFFs – are they allowed, or is it still taboo? There are two sides to every argument, so we consulted two wedding experts to get their thoughts. No Fiona Deans-Dundas, Couture Wedding Planning Traditionally, onl