Should men be invited to a bridal shower?

There is no single answer, and this article puts both sides. Fiona Deans-Dundas argues the shower is a tradition for women passing wisdom to the bride, and that a male friend is better honoured with a separate lunch or dinner. Wendy Daoud El-Khoury argues the opposite: if the kitchen tea is about setting up a household two people will share, exclude nobody. Match the format to the couple.

What is a bridal shower for men called?

A co-ed shower that welcomes partners and close male friends is often called a Jack and Jill. It works especially well when the couple already shares one social circle.

Who usually attends a bridal shower?

Traditionally the women closest to the bride, hosted by the maid of honor or a member of the wedding party, who sets the tone. Modern etiquette leaves the guest list open, including co-ed formats.

Does everyone invited to the bridal shower have to be invited to the wedding?

Yes. It is the one firm rule of shower etiquette. Everyone on the shower guest list should also be on the wedding guest list.

What do men do at a co-ed bridal shower?

The same as every other guest. Conversation, gifts and food. As Wendy Daoud El-Khoury puts it, a male friend who is comfortable with hours of conversation, hair and make-up talk, photos of nieces and nephews and a plate of pastries will have a good time.