Your wedding isn’t a democracy. The more you try to please everyone, the less it feels like yours.The truth is, once you start planning, everyone suddenly thinks it’s their event too. Parents bring up guest lists, aunties suggest venues, friends angle for Instagrammable moments, and the financial strings attached to “help” often come with opinions you didn’t ask for. If you let it all in unchecked, you risk spending the most meaningful day of your life putting on a show for everyone else.
