It’s an age-old question for Wedding guests all around the world: how much do I spend on a Wedding gift? Spend too much and you could look like you’re showing off; spend too little and you can appear stingy. It really is a marital minefield, but we’ve got the three questions you need to ask yourself which will give you the answer. 1. What’s My Guess-timate? The first step to figuring out how much to give is to estimate how much the Bride and Groom are spending per head. For example, if the Weddi