Despite how hard scientists try, there’s never been a study that shows a proven method for finding your soulmate. From lust, timing, compatibility and family, there are so many factors involved that you can’t predict the course of love, let alone control it. However, Director of Sexual Health Australia, sex therapist and relationship counsellor, Desiree Spierings says that there are ways to maximise your chances of finding Prince (or Princess) Charming. 1. Get Intimate No, not in that way! Desir